How can you make your life more enjoyable and fruitfully?

Mahinda Herath
4 min readAug 23, 2021

You feel energized, driven, and optimistic when you are successful. Don’t worry about it if you don’t have the funds to do it right now; ask yourself why you want to attain what you desire. If you’re frustrated because you haven’t accomplished your goal, consider why. Take a walk, listen to music, or paint to feel more motivated and uplifted. Whatever your aim is, no matter how big or small, you can start by satisfying the wants and needs you expect it to fulfil. As you reach the achievement you desire, many suitable other doors will open for your life. Do you want to find new ways to reach your life dreams? If the answer is “yes,” This is the article for you.

Therefore, in this article, we’ll discuss how to achieve that. Firstly, setting goals is essential for success. To get the most direct path to your destination, you must first know where you want to go. And success is necessary for happiness and joy. It will increase your motivation and boost your spirit. You feel energized, driven, and optimistic when you are successful. And feeling inspired and joyful encourages you to put forward your best effort and obtain the best results.

On the other hand, making goals can make you feel like a failure if you don’t achieve them unless you know how to set goals that you can achieve. Create a clear and concise description of what you want to accomplish when setting a goal. It’s ideal to do this in writing since it will help you focus, clarify your thoughts, and imprint on your mind exactly what you want to accomplish. Another benefit of writing down your goals is that it serves as a reminder. It entails you taking physical action to achieve your goals.

This creates momentum that encourages you to take more action. What occurs next, however, is where many goal-setters become stuck. What do you do if you don’t meet your objectives? You may set a financial goal for yourself to achieve in six months, but six months pass, and you have not achieved your objective. Here’s how to make sure your goal-setting system never fails. When you’re frustrated because you haven’t reached your goal, consider why you want to attain it in the first place.

In another sense, ask yourself why you want to reach that goal in the first place. For example, you might desire to increase your earnings. But what if you cannot improve your financial status to the desired level within the time frame? Then consider WHY you wish a higher income. It’s possible that your motivation is to migrate to a big home. Since you haven’t yet manifested the funds, consider why you want a big home.

One motivation is to be in a new, more beautiful indoor environment with more light and space. Ask yourself why you want that better, larger, more attractive space if you don’t have the financial means to make it happen. You may respond that you want to feel energized and inspired and believe that area would help you do so.

You may be able to receive more of this without having to wait till you earn more money. Using your imagination, you may tune in to how you want to feel. Imagine yourself in a space that allows you to feel how you want to feel, and stay there. Do things that you CAN do to feel more inspired and uplifted, such as going for a walk, listening to songs, or painting if you’re an artist.

Whatever your aim is, no matter how big or small, you can start by satisfying the wants and needs you expect it to fulfil. And as you attain the degree of success you desire, more doors to higher levels of success will open for you. This is a goal-setting mechanism that can’t possibly fail.

Written By: Mahinda Herath (BSc, MSc, PhD (reading), Dip. in Psychology, AMPC. Professional Counselor, Scientist, Extension Officer)

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Mahinda Herath

Professional Counselor, Motivational Speaker, Corporate Trainer, Scientist, Extension Officer (BSc, MSc, PhD (reading), Dip. in Psychology, AMPC)